If you knew you your partner had three weeks to live what would you do?

 

When life as she knew it was shattered by the terminal illness and eventual loss of her beloved husband, Berni found herself carrying an invisible yet unbearably heavy griefcase. It was filled with unprocessed emotions, unanswered questions and the lingering pain of a love so profound that it left an indelible mark on her soul.

But this is not a story of despair; it’s one of transformation. Through tears, laughter and the unwavering support of friends, family and faith, Berni  discovered that grief isn’t something to "get over." Instead, it’s a companion that, when embraced, unlocks profound growth, resilience and new opportunities.

From moments of spiritual connection to traversing the vast central deserts of Australia, Berni began to unpack her griefcase, discarding its weightiest burdens and replacing them with hope, wisdom and passion. Along the way, she unearthed her own voice as an advocate, her purpose in helping underserved communities and a renewed sense of adventure—embracing everything from mustering cattle, to running marathons, climbing mountains and camping under the stars There is a beautiful story that unfolds within Berni’s journey that, celebrates the acceptance of an English girl as family with the Anangu people.

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At its core, The Griefcase is a poignant and empowering memoir about how to navigate the unpredictable landscapes of love and loss. It’s an invitation to explore your own emotional luggage, uncover hidden treasures and chart a path toward a life that’s not only restored, but ridiculously enriched..

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If you’ve ever faced a life-altering loss,or know someone who is, this book will encourage you to embrace grief, rediscover strength, courage and belief in the magic of new beginnings.